This is a true story. I'm not embellishing and I'm just as shocked as you're about to be when this was happening.
I went on a date with someone I met on OKcupid. (this was a while ago, so it's noone I met recently) I met him at a Hookah bar, and we sat down to talk.
Immediately I knew something was up because he was much shorter than his profile indicated.. about 6 inches difference. He listed at 5ft7in and he was 5ft1in or so. I thought "ok, I can deal with someone shorter than me, no problem". Then throughout the evening I found out that he's a vegetarian MetalHead whose mom is in jail, he works at char-hut, and Hates the human race. Then he leaves in the middle of the date to talk to his grandma on the phone. When he comes back he says he has permission to date me. O_o He says he's constantly angry when not medicated, and he took more than his usual dose to appear mellow when on the date with me. Toward the end of the date he keeps trying to persuade me to spend some time with him in the back of his car.. SO.. yeah.. creepy.
We keep in touch for a while, then I saw him get into a relationship with someone on Facebook. I confront him about it. He says:
"I'm sory i lost contact wit u but i met a girl but wer not exclusiv but i gues i figurd u wudnt want 2 stil see me sinc i ques u want a serious relationship"
My response? "Yeah I'm sorry, I'm looking for someone just for me and noone else"
I thought it was done.. complete.. nothing more to talk about.. till he contacts me today.
[15:39] VEGEMETALHEAD: nicky
[15:39] Tryssnik(me): hi
[15:39] VEGEMETALHEAD: wats up how u been
[15:39] VEGEMETALHEAD: i sent u a couple texts
[15:43] VEGEMETALHEAD: nick
[15:58] Tryssnik(me): sorry my co-workers came by to talk to me.
[15:58] VEGEMETALHEAD: thats ok
[15:58] Tryssnik(me): Brad, I gotta be honest. after hearing you're dating someone after that one date I lost interest.
[15:59] Tryssnik(me): I'm not interested in sharing my partners, and you seem to be too angsty for me.
[15:59] Tryssnik(me): I'm sorry
[16:02] VEGEMETALHEAD: ive been tryin to break up with her for a long time we dont work together
[16:03] VEGEMETALHEAD: and were breakin up finally but u say u lost interest
[16:03] Tryssnik(me): it's true
[16:05] VEGEMETALHEAD: didnt u tell me the guys u had met didnt even stay to meet u and now ur rejectin me because somehow i got involved with someone that i didnt want to get involved with
[16:07] Tryssnik(me): you didn't say you didn't want to get involved with her when you told me that you were dating someone.
[16:25] Tryssnik(me): you said in txt: "I'm sory i lost contact wit u but i met a girl but wer not exclusiv but i gues i figurd u wudnt want 2 stil see me sinc i ques u want a serious relationship"
[16:26] VEGEMETALHEAD: i didnt thou just happened we almost broke up the first week and have done it a million times since but she doesnt get the message
[16:26] Tryssnik(me): and I said: " Yeah I'm sorry, I'm looking for someone just for me and noone else"
[16:26] VEGEMETALHEAD: she wont let me break up with her
[16:27] Tryssnik(me): I'm not dealing with this. Even if you broke up with her, I'm still not interested. You're a really angsty guy and I'm not into that.
[16:28] VEGEMETALHEAD: thats crazy thou considerin uve said guys have ditched when they saw u u know beggars ccant be choosers
[16:30] Tryssnik(me): well this beggar is choosing to block you. Have a great life. Good luck.
Maybe I'm not up on current dating culture, but I think that telling someone they're a beggar is no way to try to persuade them to date you. THEREFORE:
IM = blocked facebook = unfriended + blocked